Inside Bhutan Issue I

Editor’s Note

‘Inside Bhutan’, is an online weekly magazine formed by, of and for the Bhutanese youths; providing platform for youths to share their opinions taking advantage of the popular social networking connectivity, in the form of interviews, story, essay and poetry. Considering the rising number of youths forming musical bands in our country, the first issue takes opportunity to interact with Tandin Wangchuk, who is the lead singer and composer of Misty Terrace, one of the famous and oldest bands in Bhutan. Chimi Wangmo from Sherubtse college voices out the rising suicide cases in Bhutan with a story, depicting one of the reasons causing suicides. Choice of streams, be it science, arts or commerce; Sujana Rai urges youths to make an informed decision through her essay. This issue cannot ignore the spring romance which is in air, thus Shiv Nepal sends his message in the form of a poem to his princess.

Happy Reading

Interview: Inside Bhutan takes opportunity to interact with Mr. Tandin Wangchuk, the lead singer of the band, Misty Terrace.

By Phurpa Dorji

Editor

Civil Engineer, Private Construction

Gelephu, Bhutan

Inside Bhutan: A short intro about the band, Misty Terrace?

Tandin Wangchuk: We are an alternative rock music band in Thimphu. In the last four years, we have experimented with a wide variety of original music, sometimes fun and danceable, sometimes stirring and intense, exploring various genres.

Inside Bhutan: Why is the band named, 'Misty Terrace’?

Tandin Wangchuk: It’s reflective of our music and indicates the feelings of our songs and music. It comes from an imagination where (yes, please close your eyes) you are standing on the terrace of an apartment, and you feel and see those clouds and mists/fog coming around you and trying to lift you higher. It’s dull red and purple, and only those melodies (clouds) can lift you and take you to a completely new world that your heart can rest upon and feel more. We believe our songs do that to us, and may be to every listener.

Inside Bhutan: How was the status of the band when started and how is it now?

Tandin Wangchuk: Due to the YouTube and internet revolution, we made it swift and easy to who we are today. Thanks to our amazing fan base. We started as YouTube artist and that’s who we are today, and that’s all is needed. We don’t belong to any associations nor groups, and this independence allows us to bend the rules, which is necessary when it comes to art.

Inside Bhutan: What do you think of the youngsters and the rising band formation culture in Bhutan?

Tandin Wangchuk: We see a huge rise in musicians, singers and such groups. It’s an indication that youths have found a better option than choosing drugs or other shitty ways of the world. It’s a new sign that, art and music are now more appreciated and respected. Isn’t that great? I think Bhutan is ready!

Inside Bhutan: Why are you not singing for movie playbacks?

Tandin Wangchuk: Actually, we have sung and sold a few of our songs to movies in the recent past. But for now, we only want to release it through our own production window, sticking it with the story and visuals we have in our minds.

Inside Bhutan: What are the biggest achievements of the band as of now?

Tandin Wangchuk: We have a lot, can’t name one. Everything has been the biggest, because it involves our heart and love in everything we do. From a crowd chanting our name to a tearful audience supporting my every breath on the stage, I think we had hundreds of such special moments. But to name one that stands out from all, is the moment we sang Yonphula for His Majesty The King and Queen on His Majesty’s Birthday last February. It was unreal!

Inside Bhutan: What are the future plans of the band?

Tandin Wangchuk: We will continue with our original songs, we have a lot in our box to last a lifetime of production.

Inside Bhutan: Any final words to your fan and readers?

Tandin Wangchuk: I thank everyone who has stood by us and supported us and loved us. We are here today, because of you, and we will need you again for this long beautiful journey ahead into our dreams.

Story: Ending life to end Problems

By Chimi Wangmo

B.A Economics and Geography

Sherubtse College

How unlucky can someone be when she cannot hear, what people are saying to her?  Yes, I was deaf. Not born but I became one, when I was in eighth grade.  I was shattered when I could no longer hear what people were saying to each other and when they no longer talked with me because I can’t hear them. My world was in misery but it became worst when my father died leaving behind my poor mother and me, all by ourselves. My mother was facing difficulties to put up with me when she remarried. Deeper, I sank in the ocean of misery, when I came to know that my stepfather was a pervert. He used to sexually harass me and I did try my best to tell my mother about him but she turned deaf ears to my words.

I was breaking down from the inside but no one seemed to care about me or wanted me ever. My mother who should had supported me instead ignored my complaints about the stepfather and warned me not to utter a single word about him, otherwise she would throw me out from the house. I cried as there was no one who loved and cared about me because I was deaf.  I was about to fall asleep when a dark figure crawled upon me. It was my stepfather. I tried to scream but he closed my mouth with his huge hand. I was helpless. He raped me not once or twice but every night. I could not complain to my mother because of her warnings. Keeping my pains inside me, I was dying from the inside every single day.

I wished I was never born. My sufferings did not stop instead it kept on adding more and more. Worst of all, I became pregnant. I started experiencing morning sickness. Noticing the change in my body, my mother started questioning about the father of the child.  I told her it was the stepfather. She instantly slapped and asked me to leave. I begged but ignoring my words; my mother dragged me outside and slammed the door shut. I had no place to go, so I stood under a tree by the roadside thinking about how miserable my life was.

After spending two nights in the forest iced by the misery of my life, I finally decided to take my life. I knew, I was going to take two souls by ending my life but even if I decided to give birth there was no way that I could keep the child happy since my life was in dilemma and I didn’t want my child to suffer like me. My last words were:

“I am so sorry my child for not bringing you to this world. Your mother can’t afford to give you happiness.  I am not worthy of your birth, being deaf. I cannot imagine the situation, when I cannot even hear your voice. In addition, you don’t have a father and seeing only your deaf mother will be a disgrace. You might curse me later, for having a miserable life because of me, so I can’t let that happen to you. Therefore, I am ending my life to end all the problems.”

Author’s Note: Suicide cases are increasing in our country whereby many people try to take their own lives for various reasons. As a human being, it is our sole responsibility to help those who are in need of help. Most of the people consider suicide as the final solution to the problems but actually, it’s just beginning of all problems. As mentioned in the religious texts, ‘You may end your life now but even in next life, you will face the same problem.’ It’s always better to deal with problems rather than taking life. Life is tough but you need to be strong by finding solutions to all problems. Life is testing you with all sort of problems thus you need to face every obstacle boldly and strategically, as it’s better to be a lion for a day than sheep forever. 

A few tips to prevent suicide:

1.     Whenever you feel depressed or you are in need of someone to talk to or you are overwhelmed with unprecedented problems; do inform your close friends; even just sharing might chase your sorrows away.

2.     Even if talking to a friend does not help you, do inform your parents or consult counsellors, if you are a student.

3.     Parents need to be sensitive to a child’s needs and behavior as Bhutan being a society where children fear parents and keep things secret being afraid of beating and scolding. Parenting needs to be changed to cope up with modern youths, whereby they are looking for parents who are open and understanding rather than being so-called ‘strict.”

4.     Whenever you meet a person with problems or seeking help from you, don’t ignore instead try to lend your help or seek help from others to help that person.

Essay: Should the choice of stream from class XI be based on passion or aptitude?

By Sujana Rai

Phuntsholing, Bhutan

The blueprints of our lives are drawn by the choice of courses in colleges, which, in turn, is affected by the choice of stream from class XI. Interest and innate ability play vital roles when it comes to the choice of stream. Both the factors are the dazzling ladders in making your future bright and successful, but aptitude paves a golden carpet for one’s future.

Selection of stream according to our interest definitely leads to a successful life but it must be square with aptitude. Walt Disney followed his passion and became a successful animation producer but he also had a natural ability in drawing cartoons. The ladder of success crumbles down if passion is not being supported by aptitude.

Unlike passion, aptitude is a golden ladder because it alone can guarantee a successful career. Aptitude is a component which does not require additional passion because it generates passion of its own. 'Divergent' actress, Shailene Woodley is personally interested in making her own lotions and toothpaste but skilled in acting thus pursuing her skill, acting became her passion.

Parents and advisors counsel students to choose streams according to their interest but if the interest isn't credited with ability, then the whole career life becomes a nightmare. If asked, everyone is interested to become pilot, doctor and engineers but their abilities decide their future and career.

Therefore, selection of stream according to aptitude complemented by passion, is essential for making our future bright and successful by pursuing a career, in which you have ability to deliver the service dutifully and passionately.

A few tips to make the correct choice of stream:

1.     Know yourself well. What are your strengths and weakness? Are you good in science, arts or commerce subjects?

2.     List down the professions you are interested in.

3.     Evaluate your class X marks

4.     Consult your parents.

5.     Make the decision by considering your aptitude, passion and future scope.

6.     Never make a choice under pressure from parents or because of your class X marks, as you are the one who is going to study not parents

7.     Make an informed decision

Poetry: Few things left unsaid

By Shiv Nepal

Third Year, Civil Engineering

College of Science and Technology

Had my tears given you heartstrings

The ocean wasn’t any water

But unimpeachable feelings

That couldn’t quench your thirst.

Oh love! Your eyes,

 An alluring work of art

  Those that Picasso painted

In the fortress of his love,

Have I drowned in them??

Oh love! Feel in me,

The love that connects your soul

Hidden, true and passionate;

Impetuous as the raging waves,

Dazzling dreams of midnight star.

My feelings are the woven brocade

But it has been like filthy trash,

That daubed your vibrant heart.

Nor did cupids arrow,

Brought me in limelight

To intoxicate you in fragrance

 of love at first sight.

Oh love! In dreams you are here,

Holding me in the warmth of yours

 My eyes reflect like mirrors,

              As I open them to stare at yours.

Oh love! Hold me and sit next to me,

Let us talk heart to heart

For there are few things left unsaid.

Note: If you are interested to contribute your articles for the next issue, please do mail me your articles @dorjiphurpa1991@gmail.com

Thanking You

Phurpa Dorji

Editor/Founder

Inside Bhutan