Life is easy

I was taking life too easily when people take it so seriously. I was not afraid of death when people were scared of the word death. I was not talking about my future when someone talked about the future, day and night. I was happy to have nothing when someone with buildings and cars is unhappy. I was enjoying my free time with my duty when someone with no work was always busy. But our situation changed my mind drastically. Do you want to know the situation that changed my mind? If no, then do read further. If so, follow along with me. I will narrate the story of how the situation changed my mind drastically.

 

One morning, when I was returning from fishing, I met with a ghost and had a conversation for a while. It was a meaningful conversation with a ghost. Many people don't believe in the existence of ghosts. But I saw a ghost with two eyes, and I even talked with a ghost. Actually, the ghost was not ghosted. He was a human being like us. He advised me, which I can't forget in my life. You are not believing me when I say I saw and had a conversation with a ghost. You will never believe it because you don't trust yourself. OK, I am not going to narrate the story. Go to sleep.

Failing one point is not the end of life

Failure is the way of life. Failures are often quoted as pillars of success . If you feel low just because of failing one point think deeply. There are many proverbs, stories and histories about failures used to inspire those who have failed in one way or another. Success comes to your way if you willing to fix our mistakes rather than getting things right for the first time.  It will be true to call every winner as a failure because a winner must have tasted the sweetness of failure. Every failure is not a winner, but every winner is the output of several failed experiences that have had helped them in stepping towards later success.

Failure should be taken as an experience or lesson rather than failure itself. Failure is not an option but the inevitable way towards success. Failure is an experience or lesson which drives a person to their success until they will not give up. Many great teachers teach us how to achieve success but remember success is neither a cup of tea nor a piece of cake. Success is something many describe as an achievement. However, we trend to give up easily and never try again for the second time.  We have to taste the experience of failing. It’s impossible to taste success in life without experiencing some kind of failure. It’s a part of life.

Write whatever you think and why you should be writing your experience

I am not professional writer but I love writing my experience and what I know. I write not for rewards but for the pleasure. I know my standard of language. However, I don't bother how is my english. I just try to convey what I mean.

I am sure my structure of language will have many grammatical mistake. Still then I am fine. I write for the pleasure. Rather than writing good article with fine grammer I try to write interesting articles with flowering language. The articles which has humour.  The article which audience enjoy.

Article should be presentable and readable. It should be understandable. I will keep on writing my experiences and what I know. I will continue my hobby of writing till I can. From the writing, it give me a joy. It engage me. It save my boredom. writing has become my leisure time. I will utilize my leisure time always in meaningful way.

Do you write sometime? If so, it is good for you. If not, why you are not writing? You are shy of your english? You shouldn't shy. I know you can write readable and understandable articles. That is more than enough. We don't have to use bombastic words to make your articles boring. Always try to write in simple words. I never used bombastic words because I don't know the words. Even I don't want to learn and start adding in my articles. I don't want my readers to use dictionary while reading my articles. Even if readers know all the bombastic words, I don't want to include in my articles by searching in dictionary.

Good luck

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Sometime social media is nightmare.

One of my friend alway chat with many girls. He always flirt girls. He has many girl friends. He looks simple but scary mind.

He was doing video call with his 4th girl friends. Suddenly the wechat application went down. That could be unfortunate incident for him.  They were talking about future when unfortunate incident happen. After 10 minutes his wechat was working. The same girl was calling him. This time girl is not the girl which he think. She was speaking louder than before. She was bit angry for hanging call in between when they were discussing about life event. My friend was saying nothing  but repeatedly saying, god promise, wechat application went down suddenly.

I listened attentively. The girl is proposing the break up since she is fate up with his act. She is saying that you always call when you feel bored. Do you think I am toy for you. Don't think you are like king of animals.

My views over their conversation and break up.
I think girl made good decision. I as his friend, he is always flirting one after another. He is educated guy but still his mind set is in 17th century style. He think girls are like toy. I wish girls are wiser like above incident. He always lie to girls. If he is on call with one girl, other girl will know he is on call. The girl is asking you are always busy. He was giving good reason by saying he was on call with professor. Ah! can't image with his lie. Why we have to lie to play with girls mind.

Sometime social media is nightmare. However, in this story it was other way round. It was life saving incident because of unpredictable application.

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We, on the earth for the purpose.(Death is certain but when and where it will occur is uncertain).

The day when we were born is the day, the world rejoices upon us. Our parents were extremely happy for us for being born in their hand. If world rejoices upon you coming on the world on the first day, you should be wise enough to let the world rejoices upon you at last day, when you are departing from this wonderful world permanently. Happy parent when you were born should also be happy when you leave this world permanently.

The world rejoice on you when you were born because world knows, you can do many remarkable tasks that benefit the world, when you are on the earth. World expect more from you. The single man coming on world is expectation of new changes for the world. The longer you stay on world, more reliable changes that last for longer duration that the world expects.

On the other hand, your parents are always happy with you. They are happy owing to you becoming more capable day by day and year by year. Your excellence in your field all together makes your parents happier than ever. As world expects you to be more meaningful man on this world, the parents too has same expectation. In spite of you being more meaningful person on this world your parent want you to be a happier man on the earth. The way your parent expects signifies that they care you more than what they can do it for you. They care you because they want you to be successful person.

The purpose of we on the earth is to make a life meaningful. To realize the meaning of life, we should have patient in listening and following the merit footprint of experts and parents. The valuable advices from elders including your parents are the key to excel your life in making it meaningful. More importantly, I consider  believing on "Tha dam tse and lay ju drey" is more important. Furthermore, you should always remember the death. Death is natural things which is inevitable. One having constant reminder of death will feel guilty of doing untidy task in your life. Having trust on what experts of Buddha teaching state “every animals on world are once our parent” and doing merit task will realize your parents dream. The only source that we can repay our thanking parent is having faith in Buddha teaching. To let the all sentient being of six realms to be happy, let us have faith and believe in dharma and practice it. 

Your dream of life should be pursuing but never forget that we are given a day where we should left this world. The wealth you gathered, beauty you may be, and popularity you are will be  nothing to any one when one go to sleep permanently. The wealth has no capability of rescuing you by giving wealth to other. The only help we will have is, only if we do our deed pure, have kind mind to everyone with justice and practice dharma when we are living on the world.  It’s always good if we can remember Guru Rinpoche once a day and recite Guru's mantra ba zar gu ru (om a hung ba zar guru pad ma se de hung) 100 times.

Death is certain but when and where it will occur is uncertain.

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རང་དབང་མེད་པའི་སེམས། (written just for fun)

གནམ་ལས་འཕུར་བའི་བྱཱ་དང་བྱིའུ་ཅུང་ཚུ།

མཐོ་བའི་ལ་མོ་སྡོད་མི་དགའ་རོགས་ལུ།

དགའ་རོགས་འོད་སྟོང་ལྡན་དང་འདྲ་མི་ལུ།

འཇིགས་མེད་ང་གི་ཁ་མཐོན་འབག་གནང་མས།

 བུ་ང་སྨན་ཆུང་དྲན་པའི་དྲན་ལུགས་དང།

ཧིང་ལས་སྨན་ཆུང་དགའ་བའི་ཧིང་གཏམ་དང།

སྨན་ཆུང་དྲན་པའི་ན་ཛུག་ཡོད་ལུགས་ཚུ།

བྱཱིའུ་ཅུང་ཁྱོད་ཀྱི་མོ་ལུ་གཤད་གནང་མས།

བུ་ང་བཟའ་ན་ཟ་བའི་བཅུད་ཡང་མེད།

བུ་ང་ཉལ་ན་ཉལ་བའི་ཉིད་ཡང་མེད།

དགའ་སྤྲོད་བཀོད་པའི་དུས་ཚོད་ནམ་ཡང་མེད།

སྐྱོ་རོགས་འབད་བ་འོང་གནང་དགའ་རོགས་ལ།

ཕྱི་རུ་ཉལ་རུང་ཉིད་ལམ་ཁྱོད་རང་མས།

དྲོ་པ་ལོང་རུང་སེམས་ཁར་ཁྱོད་རང་ཤར།

ག་ཏེ་སྡོད་རུང་ག་ཏེ་འགྱོ་རུང་རང།

སེམས་ཁར་ཁྱོད་ལས་མ་ཏོག་གཞན་འདི་མེད།

སྨན་ཆུང་སྦྱམ་དང་སྙིང་རྗེ་ཡོད་པ་ཅིན།

འཁོར་བ་འཁྱམས་པའི་བུ་ཆུང་འཇིགས་མེད་ལུ།

འཕྲལ་དང་འཕྲལ་རང་ཕྱད་པ་འོང་འདི་གི།

དགའ་སྤྲོའི་མངའ་ལུ་བཀོད་བཅུད་བུ་ཆུང་ང།

སྐྱབས་གནས་བླམ་དང་དཀོན་མཆོག་གསུམ་པོ་གི།

འཁོར་བ་འཁྱམས་པའི་བུ་ཆུང་འཇིགས་མེད་ལུ།

ཐུགས་རྗེ་སྤྱན་གྱི་གཟིགས་ཏེ་སྐྱབས་གཟིགས་གནང།

ཡང་ཡང་ཁྱོད་ལུ་གསོལ་བ་བཏབ་དོ་ང།

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མི་ཚེ་མི་ལམ་བཟུམ་ནང་ ཕ་མ་སེམས་ཅན་ལུ་ཆ་རོགས་མཛད།

དལ་བ་བརྒྱད་དང་འབྱོར་བཅུ་ཚང་འདི་གི།

མི་ལུ་ལུས་བསྟན་ཐོབ་པ་བཀལ་བ་བཟང།

དམ་ཆོས་དར་བའི་གཡུས་དང་བླ་མ་རྣམས།

མཇལ་བ་ཙམ་གྱི་བུ་ཆུང་དགའ་སྤྲོད་འབྱུང།

མི་ཚེ་མཐོང་སྣང་དགའ་སྐྱིད་བཟོ་ནི་ལུ།

བདག་གཞོན་གནས་སྟངས་གཉིས་ལ་གཟིགས་གནང་ཞུ།

བདག་གཞོན་དགའ་སྐྱིད་ཡོད་པའི་མཐོང་སྣང་འདི།

མི་ཚེ་ ཚད་ཉིད་ཟེར་རུང་འདི་རང་ཨིན།

སེམས་ཅན་ ཨིན་ཟེར་ཐུགས་ཇེ་མ་གནང་ཞུ།

སེམས་ཅན་རང་གི་དྲིན་ཆེན་ཕ་མ་ཨིན།

སེམས་ཅན་རྣམས་ལ་སྙིང་རྗེ་བཀོད་གནང་ཞུ།

ཕ་མ་ཞབས་ཏོག་ཟེར་རུང་འདི་རང་ཨིན།

སེམས་ཅན་ ཕ་མ་ཨིན་ཟེར་སྔོ་མི་ཤེས།

སྔོ་ཤེས་ དྲན་ཤེས་མེད་པའི་ཕ་མ་ལུ།

ཕ་མའི་ཤ་ཅིག་ ཟ་ནི་སྤང་འདི་གི།

སེམས་ཅན་ཕ་མ་སྣམས་ལ་གུས་སྟོད་ཞུ།

Lord Buddha will always bless us.

The reasons are always there.( Fisherman has reason to kill fish)

                     

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Once, a Yogi was on the way to his meditating cave, and he passed via a river. He was a bit busy and had to reach his destination faster. To his amazement, he found a fisherman fishing the fish while crossing a bridge. In the action of a fisherman, he chased an insect, coming towards his eyes by waving his hand up and down. It was a frequent action that Yogi noticed as he watched the fisherman from the bridge. Yogi thought Fisherman was calling him to come down when Fisherman waved his hand to chase the insects. Yogi said to himself, "Why is he calling me when I am so busy?" Then he decided to go near a fisherman.

As soon as the Yogi got close to the Fisherman, he asked, "Why did you call me?" To his surprise and irritation, the fisherman answered, "I didn’t call you." After a fisherman's explanation, Yogi got the message that he wasn’t called and it was his mistake.

Before he leaves the spot with blush, he got a question to ask the fisherman. "Why are you fishing and killing fish? They have not harmed you. They also have a life similar to ours. " "You will never know how much fish have harmed us," the fisherman replied. They don’t even think of human beings drinking this water (river), and they pass urine and shit in the water itself. So the water becomes dirty. I always get a cough and a cold because of dirty water. So I am fishing. "

Yogi had no reply to his answer and went off.

Now to the reader, what would you give a fisherman's reply if you were a Yogi at that time?

N.B: This is a story I heard from one of my teachers in middle school. 

Ruining of a girl’s life by boys.

             

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Blaming and criticising people for making mistakes is common to everyone. We never think before we blame someone for their mistake. Should we blame the girl if she is pregnant? We should understand the situation before we place blame. We, as boys, never understand the pain and worry that girls have. A boy always cheats on a girl to gain pleasure. The common words, like "I love you and will marry you", are said by boys to girls. The helpless girl believed the untrue words. Finally, she listened to what he said. If a girl is pregnant, boys never turn up for her help. Imagine that you are in her shoes. Carrying an infant in her stomach before marrying will bring you great sorrow. The unending thoughts like, "What will my parents say if they know? Society will blame me if they know, and I will feel shy if they know." The thoughts go on from dawn to dusk. She will be the most sorrowful person in the world. Will there be anyone who can help her in those critical situations?

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Now to all my friends, boys: Never think of spoiling and ruining the life of a girl by saying untrue words if you have no heart to care for her. Instead of cheating and ruining her life, treat her as your sister. Think about our precious lives being spoiled by someone. I can’t comment on what we would have in mind if our life was spoiled by someone. Think about your own situation in not fulfilling what you targeted. How much will you feel sad? It is understood that a girl suffers a lot when a boy spoils her life. If we spoil a girl, it’s a great shame on us.

If any of the girls read this article, I have a few words to tell you. Never believe a boy’s words until you trust him. You should not trust him within a short period of time. Always try to dig out the true feelings for you before you believe him, otherwise he will ruin your life.

Why the couple age should be differents?

The husband and wife's age should be different. The boyfriend and girlfriend's age should be different. But why their age should be different? Did you ever think of that? If no we need to think why husband and wife age should be different.

Usually, the husband should be older than wives. Many prefer the husband should be more than 5 years older than the wife. I too prefer that. But why we prefer that age difference. There are many advantages to having that age difference.

A husband who is older than you care you better than a husband who is the same age as you. A husband who is younger than you will even do worse to you. Older husband is always good than a younger one. We can't say older husbands are better. There might be some exceptions because there is always a black sheep among a flock of sleep. The sometimes younger one will be a better choice. It is always in our hands to select among good and choose the best one.

Another reason why a girl should go for older men is because of the following reason. Women give birth and get much older than men. If you have the same age husband or younger husband, there is every chance he will go with other younger girls. The old man will never leave you because he loves you dearly. He loves you because you are younger than him. The old man will never be possessive because he is afraid of losing you. However, you should not take all those advantages of old man. There is one point where an old man gets saturated and will blast you badly.

My take on the above points. I also prefer a girl who is much younger than me just because of the above reason. However, I am not saying I will neglect the older girls. If fate has governed us, I will go for any girl irrespective of age.

May I hear your opinion too. Will you marry an older girl than you or a younger girl than you.

I am happy today

Why and how I was happy will never be shared with anyone.

WORST DEMOCRACY IN SPAIN

Sending Ministers and pro-independences for 30 years to prison without bail is absolutely a inhuman act. It is more than animals deed. That is serious violation of human rights. Those ministers and Pro-independences act according to the people of Catalonia. They don't deserve inhuman treatment. They raised voice on behalf of millions of Catalonian. If Spain government think that they violated the law of the nation, people of Catalonia should be in prison. Why only ministers and pro-independence? What is the idea behind doing that? Your government must be afraid of those people because they are most intelligent and dynamic leaders. No one deserve to send to prison.

Why your government hate Catalunia? Instead you should be happy with taxes they paid for your government and never give adequate infrastructures to them from the taxes you collected.

What is your problem when Catalunia go away from Spain? There is a way and means to solve the issues.The issues of politics. Spain government act insane. Acting violently towards voters. Spain leader need a complete rehabilitation.

Let them (Catalonia) stay peacefully. Don't poke your dirty nose to other business. When majority votes for independence why can't Spain start a dialogue between Catalonia leaders. Instead of acting inhuman. You may say many people want to be in Spain rather than departing. They will say because they are not Catalonia. They are resettlement people. All people living in USA is not American. This is very simple example I can give to Spanish Leader.

This is 21st Century and you are still in the mode of Francisco reign. Please treat your people well. If you want catalonia to be your part, treat them well.

Dialogue is more important than sending to prison.

May Buddha bless all the people of world and specially the president, ministers and people of Catalonia in worst time. 

The reason that ADSENSE give to reject your application

I never send another email of adsense to link to blog. I only sent one email which i used for blog to open adsense but Adsense reply me "you recently closed or your application is disapproved". May be you have another adsense apply for this website. So many reasons.

ADSENSE IS TOTALLY BULSHIT AND TIME WATSING stuffs

The google provide ADSENSE where they say we can make money but I say it is totally bulshit and time wasting for people like me. They never approved what we sent application. They just send automatic email that has noreply email. Which means we can't reply to them.
I maintain blog not to make money but as a hobby.
I don't know why I attempt to sign for adsense account which waste my lot of time.

So, friends don't waste by sending many application because google will never approve.

Why do Bhutanese girls worry about marriage after crossing their 20s? And researchers found giving birth after 25 is good for health.

Many Bhutanese girls, after crossing 20, are worried about marriage. I don’t know why, but I do know one thing. 

They are worried about not getting a husband, but why should they worry about a husband? They should worry about their career first. I am generalising here because not all Bhutanese girls are like what I said. There are many girls who are capable of thinking and sometimes more than a man thinks.

 One thing is society. People are worried about the stigma of society.  The stigma of blaming and backbiting The malicious talk behind a person's not getting married and not getting a husband 

Marrying after you are independent and after crossing 25 will be better. It will be much better if you marry at 30. You are independent and you are not dependent on your husband. Usually, a man tries to dominate his wife because he thinks she is dependent on him. Actually, he is wrong. She is your wife. You should never think that she is depending on you. Marrying after 25 or at 30 is a very good age to marry. You can think and decide what is good. There are many divorce cases in Bhutan because of child marriages (teenage marriages). What can we expect from a teenage marriage when they can't understand what is good? when they are dependent on their parents. Teenage marriage is the worst marriage timing for both the girl and the boy. They are producing another independent for their parents. 

Never worry about marrying until you are dependent. Don't worry about society's stigma. Let people talk, but nothing will happen to you. 

The average age for giving birth was found to be 29. So, if you are 28, you don't have to worry about marrying. And the average girl's marriage age was found to be 30. If you are in Western countries and if you are 30, then you are still young. The only thing in Asian thinking makes you old. We need to change that wrong notion.

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Bhutan, the peaceful country on the globe.

Bhutan is small country in himalaya between world most populated country China in the north and India in the South.
The world happiness report may not shown Bhutan in number one but there are many factor that contribute Bhutan not coming first. world happiness measurement which focus on wealth and Bhutan is not wealthy country. So, definitely Bhutan may not be happiness country base on wealth but certainly Bhutan is most peaceful country base on satisfaction. People are happy totally. people don’t have luxuries cars or buildings but they are happy. Happiness is not about having all those luxuries stuffs. Happiness is something which should be come within people mind. World happiness index which base on wealth and bhutan can never be happiness country. The GDP of Bhutan is just 2 billion USD which many investors will have more than that. However, Bhutanese are absolutely happy.

More will be continued in next....

Green Bhutan. Source:www.google.com

Why giving same adsense account for youtube and blog will trouble you?

I recently gave same adsense account for both youtube and blog. But i was foolish to give same account despite of reading many people's opinion that we shouldn't give same account. Many people advice that if one of blog of youtube violate rule, both blog and youtube are affected. So, I choose to have different adsense account for blog and youtube.

It is better to have different adsense account so that you know how much youtube and blog earn. If you have adsense account for blog and youtube together, you don't know how much each earn. 

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Condom Vending Machine in Bhutan and why first in Phuntsholing? Why not Thimphu?

Recently Bhutan national newspaper kuensel reported that pilot project of opening Condom Vending Machine was installed in Phuntsholing. The customer can insert Nu.5 to Vending machine and takes condom.

The only reason for installing condom vending machine in Phuntsholing first is that it is trade hub in Bhutan. There are thousands of people who are arriving every days and doing what not things. Today when HIV AIDS issue are on rise and other sexually transmitted disease are alarming, condom vending machine will play vital role in preventing all those unwanted stuff. And many HIV AIDS cases are from Phuntsholing. It doesn't mean, people are in Phuntsholing. I mean they were infected from Phuntsoling while they go for some reason. It is spread all around the country today. Be careful wherever you stay and go.

After few months, Condom Vending machine will be installed in other part of Bhutan. May be Thimphu could be second target as there are many people. Condom vending machine will not only prevent sexually transmitted disease but also unwanted teenage pregnancy.

Teenage pregnancy is also becoming the bigger issue in Bhutan. Parents has a role to play. We shouldn't a shame of advising our children about sex. Sex education should start in primary or secondary school in Bhutan to educate our children who are hungry for sex. We Bhutanese have bad habit like timing of shy. We don't know where to feel shy and where not. Educating children about sex education is actually the noble advice because you are advising them to behave like human.

We will only realize when our children become one of the victim. By that time it will be too late. Regret has no solution. It is important that we should constantly remind them about all those things along with other advice.

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Is that how she changed her faithful mind when she reaches to the United State of America and meets Mexican boy?

I can't imagine if I were in his shoes, the pain and trauma he went through. He was my friend who was studying at CST. He is a kind-hearted man, physically and mentally. Because of those personalities, the girl asked him to marry her.

They got married a few years ago. The boy after class 12 made it to CST. And the girl decided to go to New York to make a life. They had many dreams for their future. Despite having children between them, the girl finalised her decision to go to NY.

Things were going in an organised way. They were happy; even their pets were smiling. The baby was kept with the girl's father and mother. The girl helps her family financially from NY.

Guru Padmasambhava said, "Time will never change, but people will." Time has reached where the girl's mind needs to change due to certain circumstances. There was neither a call nor a short message to her husband. She has changed totally.

She texted him that she wanted to end their relationship, which broke my friend's heart, which is still a healing process today. I couldn't help him as he was going through inner trauma of love. I could only tell him, "Don't worry, one thousand comes. He smiled physically, but I knew he was hurting totally from the inside. It was like a dreadful nightmare for him. He couldn't study well. He couldn't eat well or sleep well. Finally, he even failed to pass his final exam that semester. That was a heartbreaking moment for my friend.

Nothing is impossible, as many are saying. The difficult moment that made my friend almost crazy is now back to normal. I am happy he is doing exceptionally well today. However, I am really sad that the dreadful fear is still lingering at the bottom of my friend's heart. He still has a fear of a girl.

Last time, a girl asked him to stay in a relationship, but my friend flatly refused. The scar of love and fear left by the NY girl is still on the hunt.

Today, I was checking on how the NY girl was staying after they broke up the relationship. It was really shocking to learn that she was married to a Mexican guy before she asked my friend for a breakup.

Faith and trust are two things in our lives to be cared for.

The distance and the greener pastures on the other side let the girl decide to betray my friend, who was once her dear and near one.

If you are reading this, don't betray your Mexican guy like what you have done to my friend.

This is the true story.

New York city.
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