Who I am supporting 2018 and why?

I am neither civil servant nor political candidate for 2018. However, I as a concerned citizen, I have my own perception after witnessing two terms of democratic rule. The two parties who rule us, DPT from 2008-2013 and PDP 2013-2018.

Both the parties were doing well. One party who sees the future and frame laws which will be useful for 100 years. On the other hand, other party who lack good planning and bring short term policies. I as a concerned citizen, I shall go with party who can foresee future and plan policies accordingly. I will not disclosed which party is doing well. I left for the reader to decide.

When I say, party with short term benefit policies, it doesn't mean that I am better than them. I am not better than them but I and everyone can easily judge the mistakes of any party. Public can judge the blunders that party does even though we don't have solutions to give them. That is main reason why I will go with party who are farsighted enough.

Some politician are born to be politician. There some politician who does great job and there are also politicians who always lie to gain the public attention. I am talking about politicians who is playing dirty games.

The two terms of democratic rule by two parties are getting over. I witnessed the difference with small margin regarding the leadership. I accepted the truth because not everybody who is elected for ruling or opposition will be good candidates. There are some candidates who were like parrots during public debate for the elections and sit like lazy pig after getting elected.

Speaking honestly, some party will finish their 5 year term in the mood of campaign. Everything they do will indirectly or directly the campaign for next election. Dear people, be careful in selecting your candidate. Please select the candidate who will teach you truth not the lie. I have learn lot of lying from many candidates which actually is not good. Politics is not always about lying.

Dear people,
Let us utilise the gift from throne in fruitful way. The only way of using fruitfully is by electing true candidates who can serve TSA-WA-SUM but not his own tsa-wa-sum.

Why are graduates still unemployed?

Have you ever wondered, why are we here in this renowned college? Not to mention, we all forget that we are being sent here basically to learn and grow both physically and mentally to face the reality of the world, beyond the campus of this college. Yes, many of us proudly say that we are the future nation builders, the leaders of tomorrow, but did you ever question, “Why are graduates still unemployed?” How many of us really thought about this? Maybe, one third or even lesser than that. To find an answer to this question, I could not sleep peacfully last night, therefore, I have asked some of our senior graduates regarding this issue, who are still hunting for jobs, working hard day in, day out to earn a living.

Various factors contributing to graduates unemplyment are: Firstly, the attitude of the youth which plays a very crucial role in presenting oneself in front of the interview panel members, secondly, the mismatch of vacancies and course taken, where the announced vacancies are not relevent to the courses taken by the students back in their colleges. Thirdly, due to the increased number of graduates every year, the vacancies are limited thus when driven by the competition, graduates with low marks are being left out as the shortlisting is based on marks. Low marks in college can be related to factors like the choice of stream in class XII, where students choose the stream not based on their interest and aptitude but taking blindly driven by marks and family pressure, affecting performance in college.

Fourthly, graduates are not being able to take up business venture of their own and get involved in entrepreneurship, due to lack of limited funds and lesser scope in Bhutan, thus remaining unemployed, looking for civil service, which takes limited number of graduates every year. Lastly, graduates are not keen in taking so-called the blue collar jobs, which are plenty in private due to low income and lack of dignity of labour. Job security plays an important role in working private, thus discouraging graduates to join private companies as the job in private is not as secure as in government. Not to forget about the corrupt practice in selecting the relatives and known ones for various vacancies leaving behind those graduates from the poor family backgrounds, though they have good marks.

To conclude, unemployment is related to various factors like; the limited vacancy in the civil service, the increased number of graduates leading to intense competition, lack of the entreprenurial skills where many graduates are afraid to take risk, and the mismatch of youth’s job preference and the available opportunities in the market, where the graduates prefer white collar jobs to blue collar and finally, the cases of both seen and unseen cases of nepotism.

Thus, taking this opportunity to write this, I want to convey the message here. Everyone of us  here in this college is due to our good performance and interest or maybe due to the external preconditions being imposed upon by our family, now  it is high time for all of us to learn and grow, pursue the dreams that we want to achieve, not somebody’s. Let us not just seat and act like a poodle toy rather let us be fearless and brave to tackle the challenges that lie beyond this campus, keeping in mind that everything is possible if you do with your heart not being forced upon by someone.

Write whatever you think and why you should be writing your experience

I am not professional writer but I love writing my experience and what I know. I write not for rewards but for the pleasure. I know my standard of language. However, I don't bother how is my english. I just try to convey what I mean.

I am sure my structure of language will have many grammatical mistake. Still then I am fine. I write for the pleasure. Rather than writing good article with fine grammer I try to write interesting articles with flowering language. The articles which has humour.  The article which audience enjoy.

Article should be presentable and readable. It should be understandable. I will keep on writing my experiences and what I know. I will continue my hobby of writing till I can. From the writing, it give me a joy. It engage me. It save my boredom. writing has become my leisure time. I will utilize my leisure time always in meaningful way.

Do you write sometime? If so, it is good for you. If not, why you are not writing? You are shy of your english? You shouldn't shy. I know you can write readable and understandable articles. That is more than enough. We don't have to use bombastic words to make your articles boring. Always try to write in simple words. I never used bombastic words because I don't know the words. Even I don't want to learn and start adding in my articles. I don't want my readers to use dictionary while reading my articles. Even if readers know all the bombastic words, I don't want to include in my articles by searching in dictionary.

Good luck

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Sometime social media is nightmare.

One of my friend alway chat with many girls. He always flirt girls. He has many girl friends. He looks simple but scary mind.

He was doing video call with his 4th girl friends. Suddenly the wechat application went down. That could be unfortunate incident for him.  They were talking about future when unfortunate incident happen. After 10 minutes his wechat was working. The same girl was calling him. This time girl is not the girl which he think. She was speaking louder than before. She was bit angry for hanging call in between when they were discussing about life event. My friend was saying nothing  but repeatedly saying, god promise, wechat application went down suddenly.

I listened attentively. The girl is proposing the break up since she is fate up with his act. She is saying that you always call when you feel bored. Do you think I am toy for you. Don't think you are like king of animals.

My views over their conversation and break up.
I think girl made good decision. I as his friend, he is always flirting one after another. He is educated guy but still his mind set is in 17th century style. He think girls are like toy. I wish girls are wiser like above incident. He always lie to girls. If he is on call with one girl, other girl will know he is on call. The girl is asking you are always busy. He was giving good reason by saying he was on call with professor. Ah! can't image with his lie. Why we have to lie to play with girls mind.

Sometime social media is nightmare. However, in this story it was other way round. It was life saving incident because of unpredictable application.

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Saving animals and Government coming up with slaughter house I

Majority of Bhutanese are Buddhist. The core concepts of Buddhist is LAY JU DREY and THA DAMTSE. We believe in Karma. What we sow shall be ripe for the future. So, if we do good things today, the good things is going to follow in the future. Buddhism is the religion where it believe about Reincarnation. Many great Lama come to world again and again after they passed away because they did great things when they were on the earth. Similarly, we the common people have a chance to come to the world for second time after our death only if we do good things in this life. What we are experiencing in this life, good and bad experiences are the result of the action from previous life. If we have done good things, we will experience good things today. Therefore, what we will experience in next life will depend on today's deeds.

In Buddhism, we believe that each and every one on the earth has become our parents in one of the previous life. Even all animals has become our parents in one of the life. True Buddhist followers believe all living being on the earth are our parents and they will never eat parents meat. However, there are group of people who pretend to following the Buddhism but doing contradictory action. These people will have thousand of reasons just to eat innocent animals which was our parents once in precious life. I have seen many Buddhist followers reasoning out Buddha personally granted cow, pig, hen, cock and so on as vegetables. That is the creepy reason from fellow Buddhist practitioner. I am lost when they reason out like they eat animals for balancing eco-systems. This is another blunders that many Buddhist argue me when I request them to go vegetarian.

As I said in earlier paragraph, the silly reasons why Buddhist eat meat. I will again focus on another reason they point out. There are few Buddhist who argue me that eating meat is same as smoking. Guru Rinpoche has personally advice us to refrain from smoking since it is plant grown out of evil's prayers.  It is another creepy and astonishing reason from fellow Buddhist. How can we compare eating animals and smoking plant as same. If you are Buddhist you should refrain from eating meat from many points of views. One most simple reason is animals are our parents once in our previous life. If you are true Buddhist followers, you will never think of eating your parents meat.

I find a good reason to eat parents meat if we are going to die if we don't eat. I have never heard about people dying because not consuming meats. There is no point of arguing to eat meat. If you can't avoid simply tell you can't avoid. But why you can't avoid. The main reason is the habit. Your taste bud has cultivate habit to taste meat as tastier than any other food which actually is not. It is just matter of trying. Even a vegetables will taste better than meat if your taste bud has a habit.

To be honest, I really feel pity on someone when they eat meat. It is sad that people are eating animals for their taste bud pleasure.

I feel there is no point to bring Buddhism in between when we discuss about meat. The only reason I don't meat is because of pain. My religion is not Buddhism but peace. I can feel pain just from simple hit but did you realize the pain which animals are undergoing in deadly slaughter house. The pain which our parent are going through in slaughter house is immeasurable. Refraining from eating parent meat could be one of the element which directly contributing you as a Buddhist.

Is there any reason other than 1. ECO SYSTEM BALANCING
                                                 2. SAME AS SMOKING.

                                                 3. ANIMALS ARE LIKE VEGETABLES.

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Life Lessons to youngsters and all.

One of the hardest lesson in life is to implement what we have learned. The lessons which we learned through many experiences. The experience over temptation, frustration and hardship. It alway easy to follow when we read but difficult to follow in reality. The few lessons which I experienced in my life and which trustworthy people shared me will be reflect here. I assure you that you will never regret for your 7 minutes for reading this beautiful lessons.

The life Lessons from my own life are as follows:

• What I Do when I feel like Giving up:

There is a time when I think my capacity is limited to do things. I reach at the point where I want to give up the work easily. This is the thought out of frustration. Don't take decision at frustrating mode otherwise you will make great mistake in your life. I usually hold on situation by switching to other work rather focusing on difficult things. Later when I am in peaceful state of mind, I take the decision whether to give up the work. Suddenly, my mind says when human can do any kind of work and the work which I am doing is already done by another human. So, why can't I do like another human. I take it as a challenges and start to focus on how I can solve the problem. There is alway a way and means to solve the problem. Therefore, giving up is not a solution. Determination and hardwork is key to success. 

• I always thank you for small achievement. 

I always try to Thank you people who help me. I always acknowledge people who involve in my work directly or indirectly. Many people forget to use simple word "Thank you" for the valuable help that people rendered to us. In Fact Thank You is most under-appreciated and under-used phrase on the planet. Thank you is appropriate in nearly any situation and it is a better response than most of the things we say.  Therefore, we should never forget to say Thank you to people who help us. 

• What I do if I think what I did is not good enough.

Everytime I finish my new work, I try to compare with other work. I always feel disappointed with my work because I am not satisfied with my work. But I am wrong to think my work is not good enough. Every person has their own way to approach for the problem. We have our own way to do the things. It is human nature that we always trend to go for new things. We don't like what we did. Indeed we need to appreciate what we did. It is good work in its own way. There other people who will appreciate our work.  

Life lessons that great people told me to follow:

• Value of respecting:
• Value Thanking
• Value of behaviour
• Value of talking
• Value of reacting

There are many values that I have learned from my role model. Those role model includes my father and mother, sisters and brothers, teachers and lecturers, professors, elders and youngers and finally the people which I meet in my life. I will never stop learning the values from people. The values can be learned even from a 3 years old child. I am happy that I have cultivate a good value in learning values from all walk of life.

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We, on the earth for the purpose.(Death is certain but when and where it will occur is uncertain).

The day when we were born is the day, the world rejoices upon us. Our parents were extremely happy for us for being born in their hand. If world rejoices upon you coming on the world on the first day, you should be wise enough to let the world rejoices upon you at last day, when you are departing from this wonderful world permanently. Happy parent when you were born should also be happy when you leave this world permanently.

The world rejoice on you when you were born because world knows, you can do many remarkable tasks that benefit the world, when you are on the earth. World expect more from you. The single man coming on world is expectation of new changes for the world. The longer you stay on world, more reliable changes that last for longer duration that the world expects.

On the other hand, your parents are always happy with you. They are happy owing to you becoming more capable day by day and year by year. Your excellence in your field all together makes your parents happier than ever. As world expects you to be more meaningful man on this world, the parents too has same expectation. In spite of you being more meaningful person on this world your parent want you to be a happier man on the earth. The way your parent expects signifies that they care you more than what they can do it for you. They care you because they want you to be successful person.

The purpose of we on the earth is to make a life meaningful. To realize the meaning of life, we should have patient in listening and following the merit footprint of experts and parents. The valuable advices from elders including your parents are the key to excel your life in making it meaningful. More importantly, I consider  believing on "Tha dam tse and lay ju drey" is more important. Furthermore, you should always remember the death. Death is natural things which is inevitable. One having constant reminder of death will feel guilty of doing untidy task in your life. Having trust on what experts of Buddha teaching state “every animals on world are once our parent” and doing merit task will realize your parents dream. The only source that we can repay our thanking parent is having faith in Buddha teaching. To let the all sentient being of six realms to be happy, let us have faith and believe in dharma and practice it. 

Your dream of life should be pursuing but never forget that we are given a day where we should left this world. The wealth you gathered, beauty you may be, and popularity you are will be  nothing to any one when one go to sleep permanently. The wealth has no capability of rescuing you by giving wealth to other. The only help we will have is, only if we do our deed pure, have kind mind to everyone with justice and practice dharma when we are living on the world.  It’s always good if we can remember Guru Rinpoche once a day and recite Guru's mantra ba zar gu ru (om a hung ba zar guru pad ma se de hung) 100 times.

Death is certain but when and where it will occur is uncertain.

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