Many Bhutanese girls, after crossing 20, are worried about marriage. I don’t know why, but I do know one thing.
They are worried about not getting a husband, but why should they worry about a husband? They should worry about their career first. I am generalising here because not all Bhutanese girls are like what I said. There are many girls who are capable of thinking and sometimes more than a man thinks.
One thing is society. People are worried about the stigma of society. The stigma of blaming and backbiting The malicious talk behind a person's not getting married and not getting a husband
Marrying after you are independent and after crossing 25 will be better. It will be much better if you marry at 30. You are independent and you are not dependent on your husband. Usually, a man tries to dominate his wife because he thinks she is dependent on him. Actually, he is wrong. She is your wife. You should never think that she is depending on you. Marrying after 25 or at 30 is a very good age to marry. You can think and decide what is good. There are many divorce cases in Bhutan because of child marriages (teenage marriages). What can we expect from a teenage marriage when they can't understand what is good? when they are dependent on their parents. Teenage marriage is the worst marriage timing for both the girl and the boy. They are producing another independent for their parents.
Never worry about marrying until you are dependent. Don't worry about society's stigma. Let people talk, but nothing will happen to you.
The average age for giving birth was found to be 29. So, if you are 28, you don't have to worry about marrying. And the average girl's marriage age was found to be 30. If you are in Western countries and if you are 30, then you are still young. The only thing in Asian thinking makes you old. We need to change that wrong notion.
They are worried about not getting a husband, but why should they worry about a husband? They should worry about their career first. I am generalising here because not all Bhutanese girls are like what I said. There are many girls who are capable of thinking and sometimes more than a man thinks.
One thing is society. People are worried about the stigma of society. The stigma of blaming and backbiting The malicious talk behind a person's not getting married and not getting a husband
Marrying after you are independent and after crossing 25 will be better. It will be much better if you marry at 30. You are independent and you are not dependent on your husband. Usually, a man tries to dominate his wife because he thinks she is dependent on him. Actually, he is wrong. She is your wife. You should never think that she is depending on you. Marrying after 25 or at 30 is a very good age to marry. You can think and decide what is good. There are many divorce cases in Bhutan because of child marriages (teenage marriages). What can we expect from a teenage marriage when they can't understand what is good? when they are dependent on their parents. Teenage marriage is the worst marriage timing for both the girl and the boy. They are producing another independent for their parents.
Never worry about marrying until you are dependent. Don't worry about society's stigma. Let people talk, but nothing will happen to you.
The average age for giving birth was found to be 29. So, if you are 28, you don't have to worry about marrying. And the average girl's marriage age was found to be 30. If you are in Western countries and if you are 30, then you are still young. The only thing in Asian thinking makes you old. We need to change that wrong notion.
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